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  • I used to hate studying history

    History was one of my most boring subjects in school. It was mainly because I had to memorise so many dates and events and names and so on, I never understood what the point was when it had all got over long ago. Of course some of the stories were interesting, but overall it was the most boring subject on Earth especially due to my total lack of motivation! :mrgreen:

    Over time, many years after I finished school, I happened to come across one answer – the maxim that those who don’t learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

    Today I was watching the movie Bombay again, it showed Babri Masjid demolition era, and the violence that followed.

    The parents of this particular couple in the story, who were from different religions and had opposed the marriage vehemently at first, but when faced with a life and death situation, one of them saves the other by identifying him as his own brother.

    There were two little boys – 6 year old identical looking twins. Its a very colorful and melodious beginning in the movie, but eventually, after the indiscriminate destruction of the mosque, communal riots break lose. These little brothers are fleeing for safety amidst the mob fury, but are caught by a group of arsonists. Threatening to set fire to them they ask them “are you a hindu or a muslim?”  again and again. Both the terrified boys reply one religion each, what can they say when their names are Kabir Narayan and Kamal Basheer! It confuses the mob who repeatedly ask the same question, and then just decide to just burn them both and start pouring fuel on them! Its a heart rending scene… a metaphor of exactly what happens in every community riot. Within any external classification of people we make based on birth or background, inside we are the same just like these twin brothers.

    The violence, pain and suffering is portrayed with graphic realism – its quite clear how people in power manipulate circumstances, while it is the poor common man who is affected. The innocence of the children and love in this inter-religious family is a stark contrast. I can’t imagine any movie conveying this brotherhood any more clearly than this movie.

    It seemed that not everybody appreciated it though, as a matter of fact bombs were thrown at the director’s house after the release. But I don’t think any common man could’ve got away from this movie without getting this point).

    One of the songs of the movie Malarodu Malaringu…

    When flowers are joining together,
    why people are fighting with each other?
    Let the madness of religious fanatism be buried.
    Let the world find solace in religion.
    There is no sorrow in these tears.
    Blood dosen’t have different colours.
    Breeze dosen’t have stipulated direction and purpose,
    Let our hearts join together

    Often misunderstood, this was the core idea of Gandhi’s non-violence…

    Gandhi was not talking about defeating or overthrowing anyone.

    Satyagraha—Gandhi’s nonviolent action—was not a way for one group to seize what it wanted from another. It was not a weapon of class struggle, or of any other kind of division. Satyagraha was instead an instrument of unity.

    You may wonder, how did Gandhi himself come to this
    amazing attitude? He said it this way: “All my actions have their
    source in my inalienable love of humankind.”

    You see, love for the victim demanded struggle,
    while love for the opponent ruled out doing harm. But in fact, love for
    the opponent likewise demanded struggle.

    Why? Because by hurting others, the oppressor also hurts himself.

    Of course, the oppressor isn’t likely to be aware
    of that. He may be thoroughly enjoying his power and wealth. But
    beneath all that, his injustice is cutting him off from his fellow
    humans and from his own deeper self. And when that happens, his spirit
    can only wither and deform.

    Now, that’s not obvious, and if you don’t believe it, I don’t know any way I might convince you.

  • lyrics of uyire (song from film Bombay)

    Recently I was watching Bombay, a top class movie (directed by Mani Ratnam) based on the communal riots in Mumbai after the shameful Babri Masjid demolition, a dark scar in our nation’s history.

    The year 1995 when this movie was released was a nice era when though I was in engineering college, we school friends were in touch on a regular basis. This song was one of our favorites, and we listened to it countless times. This song makes me takes me back in time!

    The context behind the song is that the man is waiting for the woman, not knowing whether she will accept his love and turn up or not.

    As my Tamil knowledge is neglibile, I never knew the wordings of this melodious song till now, when I read the subtitles of the movie. So here are the lyrics translated to English, of the Tamil song Uyire

    Dearest one, come and become one with me
    My beloved, make me one with you

    Memories, become a part of me
    Oh fair Moon, become one with the sky
    If there is love, let it bloom before my eyes
    If fate intervenes, make me one with the dust

    Dearest one, come and become one with me
    My beloved, make me one with you

    There’s life in my body as I await the breath of my life
    If my little flower dosen’t come I’ll turn to ashes on this mountain side
    I don’t care if I lose my life
    That’s not the reason for this song
    To have a bright future with my love
    That’s what I long

    Is it the beginning or the end?
    Ive left it in your hands
    Dearest one, today I’ve become one with you
    I’ve overstepped my limits for the love of you
    Memories, you’ve become a part of me
    Dreams, you’ve become a part of my reality

    Just one look & I lost myself
    How could I stay away from you?
    When one eye lights up with love
    Won’t the other one brighten up too?

    Like a river flows through the rocks
    I came to see my beloved’s face

    Like the gently waiting breeze
    I came to hear my beloved’s voice
    Even my tears taste sweet today

    In the Sufi tradition of Islam which really appeals to my heart, God is referred to as ‘beloved’. From this perspective, any of the romantic film songs can sound like a devotional song! 🙂

    Also see: Kahlil Gibran on Love

  • silence and nature

    sulochanosho’s striking post Dead Scripture and Live Nature reminds us about learning from live nature… but most of the time we miss this, like this guy in this story from Paulo Coelho’s short stories for parents and grand parents

    A Sufi master and his disciple were walking
    across a desert in Africa. When night fell, they
    pitched their tent and lay down to rest.
    ‘How silent it is!’ said the disciple.
    ‘Never say “how silent it is”,’ replied the
    teacher. ‘Say rather: “I cannot hear nature”.

  • quotes by Douglas Adams

    I watched the gorilla’s eyes again, wise and knowing eyes, and wondered about this business of trying to teach apes language. Our language. Why? There are many members of our own species who live in and with the forest and know it and understand it. We don’t listen to them. What is there to suggest we would listen to anything an ape could tell us? Or that it would be able to tell us of its life in a language that hasn’t been born of that life? I thought, maybe it is not that they have yet to gain a language, it is that we have lost one.

    ~ Douglas Adams

    Remind me in a way of UG (only in a way, UG was & is unimaginably unique 🙂 )… esp this one…

    We are not an endangered species ourselves yet, but this is not for lack of trying.

  • future of fast food?

    Saw this on onion… 😉

    New Wearable Feedbags Let Americans Eat More, Move Less

    For those not familiar with Onion, its a really funny satirical look at the world… its comedy but with some background of truth in it… this particular one reminded me of the link between  multitasking and absentmindedness… (absentmindedness has reduced for me over recent years)

    I once came across an article that helped me trace one of the main reasons for my absentmindedness back to my childhood days – it said that kids who have the habit of reading while eating end up becoming absentminded living in their own dreamworld.

  • doctor's prescription for a better me

    TAKEN FROM “WAKE-UP CALLS WRITTEN BY JERRY JAMPOLSKY, M.D. AND DIANE CIRINCIONE, PH.D.

    1. TO BE AWAKE IS TO KNOW THAT WE WERE NEVER SEPARATE

    2. NO ONE EVER TOLD US WHEN WE WERE BORN THAT “HANGING LOOSE” OR BEING “UPTIGHT” WAS A CHOICE

    3. IF HEARTS WERE MORE OPEN TO LOVE, WE WOULD HAVE LESS NEED FOR OPEN HEART SURGERY

    4. WE HAVE THINGS BACKWARDS BECAUSE “REST IN PEACE” SHOULD BE FOR THE LIVING AND NOT THE DEAD

    5. THERE ARE ONLY TWO EMOTIONS; LOVE AND FEAR

    6. FEAR IS NEVER DEAR AND ALWAYS COMES FROM LIFE’S REAR

    7. AWAKENING OCCURS WHEN WE RECOGNIZE THAT THERE IS NEVER ANYONE TO BLAME

    8. ONE OF OUR BIGGEST CHALLENGES IN LIFE IS TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH OURSELVES

    9. CHANGING THE THOUGHTS IN OUR MINDS CAN CHANGE OUR LIVES

    10. ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT CHALLENGES THAT HUMAN BEINGS HAVE IS TO STOP LOOK INTO THE MIRROR AND SAY, “ I LOVE YOU WITH ALL M HEART JUST AS YOU ARE”

    11. TO AWAKEN AND EXPERIENCE FREEDOM IS TO LET GO OF THE ATTACHMENTS WE HAVE TO ALL OF OUR POSSESSIONS

    12. THE LAW OF GUILT IS TO PUNISH YOURSELF OR BLAME SOMEONE ELSE. THE FIRST STEP IN LETTING GO OF GUILT IS TO NO LONGER SEE ANY VALUE IN HOLDING ONTO IT

    13. PERCEPTION IS A MIRROR NOT A FACT

    14. IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE ONE OF YOUR DOCTOR’S MANY PATIENTS, MAKE IT A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE TO HAVE INFINITE PATIENCE

    15. TENDERNESS AND GENTLENESS WALK HAND IN HAND, FOR WHERE THERE IS NO FEAR, THERE IS ONLY LOVE

    16. CELESTIAL AMNESIA IS LETTING GO OF THE PAST AND REMEMERING ONLY THE LOVE WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN AND RECEIVED

    17. FORGIVENESS IS THE KEY TO INNER PEACE AND HAPPINESS

    source: Archictects of A New Dawn

    (vision of legendary Mexican-American rock musician and guitarist Carlos Santana… see him in action below…)

  • waiting in a queue could be a blessing in disguise!

    Usually in the West we see everyone forming a disciplined queue, whereas in India even for a plate of idli in a self-serviced cafe, its not unusual to find people crowding around the counter, elbowing each other out as if there was some impending famine and its some urgent fight for survival for the last remaining stock! However during one of my travels, I had been in an unusual situation in a European airport. Everyone – mostly fair skinned foreigners – were in a disciplined queue as usual, and suddenly there was an announcement that there was some mess up in reservations on the flight, and there were only a few seats available. Suddenly the discipline scene changed dramatically and it became more unruly than the local Bangalore mob that tries boarding a public bus even before it stops! I was really stunned to see this incredible sight that I’d never witnessed before in the west, and realised that everyone sticks to discipline as long as resources are guaranteed. In India we’ve somehow been brought up to believe that if we don’t fight for it we lose it… I think this terrible idea is inbuilt into our psyche right from our childhood due to the competition in our educational system.

    Sudhee recently sent me a link from Robin Sharma‘s blog on the discipline of being ethical. The post talks about how he takes a stand on not standing in a shortcut queue, but taking the extra time of standing in the longer one because it was the right thing to do.

    He writes…

    My daughter and I were following the rules – but this meant we ended up waiting another 15 minutes to ride up the mountain. And this meant less runs. On a perfect day.

    He finds the advantages…

    But I get to stay true to my values. And I get to show my precious daughter a little leadership by example

    I appreciate this idea and find the post quite inspiring. On the other hand, I don’t know if one could stand by it if the situation was something more critical than a skiing trip. But well atleast one can practice it in simple things 🙂 There is a story from the truly wonderful book Zen in the Martial Arts, by Joe Hyams…

    “You will never learn to do anything well in life unless you are willing to give yourself time,” he said. “I believe you are accustomed to having everything come easily to you, but this is not the way of life or the martial arts.”

    “I try to be patient,” I responded.

    “We are not talking about patience,” he answered. “To be patient is to have the capacity of calm endurance. To give yourself time is to actively work toward a goal without setting a limit on how long you will work.”

    One day I asked him (Master Han) how he could remain so patient with the many demands on his time. We were then having tea in his office and I noticed on his desk an unopened letter from Korea that had just arrived in the morning mail. I expected him to excuse himself and read the letter at once, but he put the letter aside. “Why don’t you read your letter from home?” I asked. “I’ll wait.”

    “I am doing what I would do had I been alone,” he said. “I am putting the letter aside until I conquer haste. Then when I open it, it will be as though it is something precious.”

    I thought over what he said for a moment and finally remarked that I didn’t know what such patience led to. “It leads to this,” he said. “Those who are patient in the trivial things in life and control themselves will one day have the same mastery in great and important things.”

    In any case, hopefully Robin also used the opportunity to spend quality time with his daughter 🙂

    One who learns to truly listen (aka a meditator) finds that waiting is never a hassle. Even standing in a queue (of course may not be practical in the context of any urgent worrying situation, but easier in ordinary situations) can be an opportunity to re-discover that one has all the time in the world! 🙂

  • what has the Sri Lankan cricket team got to do with anything

    Wonder what is happening in this patch on the globe called Pakistan. With all due respect to the Pakistanis I’ve met in person during my foreign trips who have all been really nice friends, going by the news, there seem to be so many armed and dangerous segments of its society that generally seem to be having something against the whole world! For example the latest attack on the Sri Lankan cricket team, though one can’t imagine what they have got anything to do with anything…

    March 03, 2009 10:11 IST
    Last Updated: March 03, 2009 10:22 IST

    Gunmen killed at least four people in an attack on the Sri Lankan cricket team’s bus on Tuesday as it drove to the Gadaffi stadium in Lahore [Images], according to witnesses and cricket officials.

    Sri Lankan media, quoting the sports minister, said four players received minor injuries in the attack — Kumar Sangakkara, Ajantha Mendis [Images], Thilan Samaraweera [Images] and Tharanga Paranavithana.

    Pakistan television channels said four people were killed.

    I’ve been an occasional reader of the Pakistani newspaper Dawn. In the past few years, and maybe it was a series of wild coincidences as I’ve only seen it at random times, it seemed to be more of an anti-Indian rather than a Pakistani newspaper! Most of the headlines had something or the other to do with something bad that India was supposed to be up to! Today I saw it after quite a while, and was pleasantly surprised to see something refreshingly different. Apart from having more Pakistan centered news and nice improvement to its site design, it also had something positive to say about India…

    Indian women of brilliance and grit
    On the hope that ever so often springs up from the deep recesses of India.

    Hopefully this will kindle the idea that Indians aren’t so bad after all, esp considering cases like the four year old Pakistani boy’s heart surgery in India recently.

    A four-year-old Pakistani boy, Mohammed Moshin, a ‘blue baby’ – born with a congenital heart defect-, was cured of his ailment in Chennai at the ‘Frontier Lifeline’ hospital of the Dr KM Cherian Heart Foundation, named after the ace cardiac surgeon who pioneered heart transplants in India.

    “We performed a very complex and rare heart surgery to rectify the congenital defect by relieving the boy of the obstruction without touching his right ventricle,’ Dr Cherian who led the team of doctors to successfully accomplish this task, told reporters here today.

    Though we’re witnessing the results of some dark past… this kind of positive turn in the media and opening up to the world by means of the blogosphere in the same site, should facilitate good reason for optimism going forward in the future.

  • trip to a village again

    Has been quite a while since last time, so about time for another trip to the village… Luckily my mom could join me again and this time my sister as well. It had been a pretty cool trip (inspite of the hot weather) with my brother in law Anand and the three women in my heart – my mother, sister and wife. Only regret was that we hadn’t left earlier in the day! Though it was only a half a day trip – it was one of those times where time stretched making it like an eternity…

    Passed a flowering field with Amma having the time of her life as she loves flowers… though I don’t know how she managed not to pluck any over here!

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    There was a lovely small lake there and Abhinav had a good time running wild on the huge open bank, and got himself in a mess amidst some convoluted creepers…

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    Here’s the main purpose of the visit – to meet his great grandmother over a century old…

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    On the way back passed a nice temple and stopped over for a while… (have a look at the different details in these pictures by clicking on them to get a full screen view)

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    Photo album of the trip…
  • that was easy to draw!

    This is the follow up of this was easy to draw?

    Submitted by cartoonist and fellow blogger Bellur in his inimitable style…

    The HOD,
    ‘Rediscovers Nature’ Block,
    Common Man’s College of Engg.
    Bangalore Branch (H.O. Igatpuri)

    Sub: Submission of Assignment

    Kindly accept my Pelican assignment.

    Sincerely Yours
    Bellur
    Roll No:260109

    …please click on the image to view it better (just click again to return*)

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    Thank you Bellur, simply superb full marks to you! 🙂

    For others: I’m with you on the laziness part but please remember ‘better late than never’ so hope you don’t take undue advantage of the fact that there’s no deadline… further entries are always welcome! 🙂

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