Old is Gold – Let’s Stand By Them For A Golden Society!
Hi , I am Sanjay M , I pledge to make a difference to this world!!
Hi , I am Sanjay M , I pledge to make a difference to this world!!
Opportunity like a good neighboring park has always there. But so many times we hardly use it by making time to go out for a good walk! Even inside or near offices there is a lot of walking space – so many times I’ve been negligient.
Off late we’ve managed to be quite regular. This morning after some rain it looked so heavenly that couldn’t help slowing down to take a video… so that any reader here can e-join us (but hopefully will be a start for an actual walk sooner or later! 😉 )
The sun occasionally peeping out of the clouds add a magic touch…
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In my career, I maintained a primarily technical role, with limited management experience, leading only small groups of people (though I’ve coordinated across much larger international groups). And in this role, I was definitely not the best or any kind of role model, but had a mixture of success as well as shortcomings.
With this basic background, I had found this book an excellent read and it had made a significant improvement to the way I did this role, so sharing it here.
Its a very simple book, approximately 50 pages or so with plenty of pages having just one sentence in them.
Its supposed to have sold some 10 million copies and is extremely popular (guess they say this on almost every book 😉 ) (There was also a follow up One Minute Parent that was nice as well). Not that we need to follow such books word to word, but worth reading as it has some good ideas.
Depending on your preference you could pick up a copy from a book store or even any footpath in Bangalore. Recently found that its available on the net as well in an online library:
http://www.nhecburma.org/online_library/PDF/Capacity/The_One_Minute_Manager.pdf
The following is from an online review…
The One Minute Manager is an easily read story which quickly shows you three
very practical management techniques. As the story unfolds, you will discover several
studies in medicine and the behavioral sciences which help you to understand why these
apparently simple methods work so well with so many people. By the book’s end you
will also know how to apply them to your own situation.
The book is brief, the language is simple, and best of all … it works!
This is from the venerable H2G2… This is excellent humor. And its applicable at a deeper level in many real contexts. You can recognize them, or sooner or later hopefully discover by yourself over time… 😉
I’ve mentioned earlier in one of the posts, that the first time I came across the Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy, it was just a very funny science fiction book that I read end to end – a laugh riot! Many years later, had chanced across it and read it again. This second read of this timeless book, I laughed again, but this time, the same books had an astonishing depth I’d never perceived before!
Scientist Stephen Hawkings says about the author Douglas Adams: “I have seldom met a more congenial spirit. Obviously I knew he would be funny. What I didn’t know was how deeply read he was in science. I should have guessed, for you can’t understand many of the jokes in Hitchhiker if you don’t know a lot of advanced science.”
Not just science, but a lot of his satire had striking descriptions of constructs in our metaphysical or social structure as well. For example, the total perspective vortex…
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This was a highlight in a mail from Today’s Kagga, which I feel is indeed true… Consider this movement for example…
The Design for Giving Challenge is a contest applicable for kids between 10 to 13.. Interview with school kids…
This video and movement reminds me of a really thought provoking movie…
A social studies teacher asks some tough questions in his first class: “What does the world expect of you?” Someone answers “Nothing” – yes absolutely correct, the world will get on without us! 🙂 And then he further questions that when the students are through with school after graduation and face the world, What if the world turns out to be a big disappointment?
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I watched the gorilla’s eyes again, wise and knowing eyes, and wondered about this business of trying to teach apes language. Our language. Why? There are many members of our own species who live in and with the forest and know it and understand it. We don’t listen to them. What is there to suggest we would listen to anything an ape could tell us? Or that it would be able to tell us of its life in a language that hasn’t been born of that life? I thought, maybe it is not that they have yet to gain a language, it is that we have lost one.
Remind me in a way of UG (only in a way, UG was & is unimaginably unique 🙂 )… esp this one…
We are not an endangered species ourselves yet, but this is not for lack of trying.
TAKEN FROM “WAKE-UP CALLS WRITTEN BY JERRY JAMPOLSKY, M.D. AND DIANE CIRINCIONE, PH.D.
1. TO BE AWAKE IS TO KNOW THAT WE WERE NEVER SEPARATE
2. NO ONE EVER TOLD US WHEN WE WERE BORN THAT “HANGING LOOSE” OR BEING “UPTIGHT” WAS A CHOICE
3. IF HEARTS WERE MORE OPEN TO LOVE, WE WOULD HAVE LESS NEED FOR OPEN HEART SURGERY
4. WE HAVE THINGS BACKWARDS BECAUSE “REST IN PEACE” SHOULD BE FOR THE LIVING AND NOT THE DEAD
5. THERE ARE ONLY TWO EMOTIONS; LOVE AND FEAR
6. FEAR IS NEVER DEAR AND ALWAYS COMES FROM LIFE’S REAR
7. AWAKENING OCCURS WHEN WE RECOGNIZE THAT THERE IS NEVER ANYONE TO BLAME
8. ONE OF OUR BIGGEST CHALLENGES IN LIFE IS TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH OURSELVES
9. CHANGING THE THOUGHTS IN OUR MINDS CAN CHANGE OUR LIVES
10. ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT CHALLENGES THAT HUMAN BEINGS HAVE IS TO STOP LOOK INTO THE MIRROR AND SAY, “ I LOVE YOU WITH ALL M HEART JUST AS YOU ARE”
11. TO AWAKEN AND EXPERIENCE FREEDOM IS TO LET GO OF THE ATTACHMENTS WE HAVE TO ALL OF OUR POSSESSIONS
12. THE LAW OF GUILT IS TO PUNISH YOURSELF OR BLAME SOMEONE ELSE. THE FIRST STEP IN LETTING GO OF GUILT IS TO NO LONGER SEE ANY VALUE IN HOLDING ONTO IT
13. PERCEPTION IS A MIRROR NOT A FACT
14. IF YOU DON’T WANT TO BE ONE OF YOUR DOCTOR’S MANY PATIENTS, MAKE IT A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE TO HAVE INFINITE PATIENCE
15. TENDERNESS AND GENTLENESS WALK HAND IN HAND, FOR WHERE THERE IS NO FEAR, THERE IS ONLY LOVE
16. CELESTIAL AMNESIA IS LETTING GO OF THE PAST AND REMEMERING ONLY THE LOVE WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN AND RECEIVED
17. FORGIVENESS IS THE KEY TO INNER PEACE AND HAPPINESS
source: Archictects of A New Dawn
(vision of legendary Mexican-American rock musician and guitarist Carlos Santana… see him in action below…)
More tyred than this guy? 😉

Kichu Krishnan had asked this question – when you reach home in the evening, how tired are you? And he talked about a typical scene that I could at that time easily relate to.
I used to be a workaholic, and when I went home I was so tired I'd just ring the doorbell, and someone from my family opens the door, and I just walk – er kind of drag myself in past them as if they didn't exist… maybe a few cursory exchange of words… go into my room or some place where I can just dump my belongings… then just plop in front of the TV or eat something… this was a typical evening.
Kichu went on to ask another question – what have you really done all day to be so tired?
[Its certainly much easier to watch television, to follow a cricket match score, and to urge someone to do something better that we ourselves are not doing. I think it takes courage to be able to answer ordinary simple questions like that to oneself which were being fired like missiles at the audience. Since you're reading this site compared to all the other much more interesting material on the net, you're quite likely to be a courageous person 😉 ]
So I was sitting there listening to these talk and asking myself these questions The initial reaction of course was – WHAT KIND OF A STUPID QUESTION IS THAT?? OBVIOUSLY I'VE BEEN WORKING HARD THE WHOLE DAY AND SO I'M EXHAUSTED…!
But considering my actual physical activity the entire day and contemplating silently about the question further made me doubt my immediate answer, and opened my mind up a bit…
Kichu went on to say – have you watched children – do they ever get tired? They keep playing the entire day… where do they get all that energy from?
And it was indeed true.
We too were children earlier, what happened to us, what difference is there between then and now? Kichu essentially spoke about how that same INFINITE ENERGY is available to us all the time, just that we are not in touch with it. Of course I don't remember the details – but I realised beyond any doubt the truth of his words.
And over the years, whenever I got tired or exhausted either from work or on a walk or a trek… I found that just recalling that idea snaps me out of the delusion "I am tired" and really invigorates me! Consequently I found that one's limits are far greater than what one may perceive! Whenever I came home from outside, I automatically happened to remember this and was usually cheerful and fresh. Even if I was really tired, not very often did the tiredness affect my mood.
This is not about some kind of positive thinking where I try to convince myself that I am not tired even when I am not 🙄 Its more about the real rather than just perceived fact – the fact may well be that I am really tired and my body does need rest (and then one can accept it, either try to get some rest if possible, or try to push my limits depending on the situation). The idea is about not falling into the trap of self-pity 🙂 That even with extensive activity, its possible to stay relaxed internally.
Years later as I happened to by some fluke of fortune get in touch with the idea of sitting in silence – looking not outside but inside, Kichu's simple idea yet most easily forgotten idea made so much more sense 😎
This is a letter to my colleagues, and I thought I’d share it here as well…
Dear all,
Can you guess where this photo was taken…

Around 18:20 just a few minutes’ walk from
our office! 🙂

This facility has just happened to be provided to us by coincidence so if you like you could use the opportunity in the evenings to take a brisk walk on the neat walking path around the lake, and enjoy a sunset on this bench before you go home/continue to work.
quotegarden.com – here are some of them…
Now shall I walk
or shall I ride?
“Ride,” Pleasure said:
“Walk,” Joy replied.
~W.H. Davies
Everywhere is walking distance
if you have the time. ~Steven
Wright
I have two doctors,
my left leg and my right. ~G.M. Trevelyan
If you are seeking creative ideas, go out walking.
Angels whisper to a man
when he goes for a walk.
~Raymond Inmon
Me thinks that the moment my legs begin to move,
my thoughts begin to flow.
~Henry David Thoreau
My father considered a walk among the mountains
as the equivalent of churchgoing.
~Aldous Huxley
Perhaps the truth depends on a walk around the lake.
~Wallace Stevens
After a day’s walk everything has twice
its usual value. ~George Macauley Trevelyan
I only went out for a walk and finally
concluded to stay out till sundown,
for going out, I found, was really going in.
~John Muir, 1913, in L.M. Wolfe, ed.,
The Unpublished Journals of John Muir, 1938
A pedestrian is someone who
thought there were a couple of gallons
left in the tank. ~Author Unknown
He who limps is still walking.
~Stanislaw J. Lec
There is this to be said for walking:
It’s the one mode of human locomotion by which
a man proceeds on his own two feet, upright, erect,
as a man should be, not squatting on his rear haunches
like a frog.
~Edward Abbey
Walking isn’t a lost art – one must,
by some means, get to
the garage.
~Evan Esar
If you are walking to seek, ye shall find.
~Sommeil Liberosensa
The best remedy for a short temper is a long walk.
~Jacqueline Schiff
We live in a fast-paced society. Walking slows us down.
~Robert Sweetgall
An early-morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.
~Henry David Thoreau
The night walked down the sky with the moon in her hand.
~Frederick L. Knowles
A dog is one of the remaining reasons why some
people can be persuaded to go for a walk.
~O.A. Battista
If you pick ’em up, O Lord, I’ll put ’em down.
~Author Unknown, “Prayer of the
Tired Walker”
My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty.
She’s ninety-three today and we don’t
know where the hell she is. ~Ellen DeGeneres