why arranged marriage

I have a few friends who are girls who are very close and whom I can spend endless amount of time not getting bored, but I dont think I’ll ever propose to them (those who arent married already) I feel that (**only for me and my perspective, not applicable to others**) it kind of spoils a good relationship, because I usually prefer no hidden agendas. So I thought about it and decided I would prefer an arranged marriage where any ulterior motive is put up front straightaway so its more easier. Another thing is of course I dont believe in the conventional system where everything has to be decided in one meeting in one hour itself but lets see what happens.

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